
If you just stumbled across this headline, you’re probably thinking… what? Why in the world would I want to do that?
Well… I’ve got news for you. You already clicked on the headline and are reading this post. So you must have some type of curiosity.
It’s a way of thinking I find very helpful, called inversion thinking. (More on that later)
But for now, let’s talk about the 5 crucial steps to having a miserable work life.
5 Steps to a miserable work life
1. Let social pressure sway your decision
This is the most important step… as you can’t possibly make the right decision by yourself, right? You need to let what other people tell you or expect from you to have a big say in this.
After all, it’s not like you’re making this decision for yourself.
So, if your parents say they want you to be a doctor or a lawyer, that is exactly what you should do. It is important that you please everybody with this decision. (No unhappy relatives!!)
The last thing you would want is to disappoint, or go against anybody else’s opinion.
Which brings me to my next point…
2. Choose what makes you the most money
Let’s face it… everybody wants to make as much money as they can. So what you spend most of your day doing in pursuit of money doesn’t even matter, right?
Want to know why?
Because money buys happiness! (Duh)
The last thing you would want is to pick a career that you have genuine skills in… God forbid, having some genuine interest in your work. (yuck!) You definitely don’t want that.
You just want to make as much money as you can, as fast as you can!
That’s where the true joy will come from.
3. Stay on your current path
It is a fundamental law of nature to follow the path of least resistance. A career is no exception to that.
If you’re already far along a certain path, you might as well keep at it. Even if you know the end road isn’t where you want to be. Because pivoting to another path requires you to forfeit all of the work you’ve already done.
That’s why sticking to the path that you’re already on is a great way to get stuck in a career that you completely despise.
Because it’s so easy to keep going. Too easy.
4. Take the first opportunity
Don’t give yourself many options.
The company that reaches back out to you first is the one you should go with.
You want to have as little choices as possible. The more options you have the higher the chance you have of picking something actually good, which you DEFINITELY wouldn’t want.
5. Shortest commute
Commutes suck…
You don’t want to have a long commute to work every day.
A longer commute can make the difference between dreading work, and looking forward to it.
To piggyback on #4, you want as few options as possible. Only considering places close to home is another great way to limit your options, and your potential.
Congrats!
If you followed those simple steps properly.
You probably look something like this guy.

Okay.. but seriously. You don’t want any of that (obviously).
The real reason I wrote this blog is to show you a framework called “inversion thinking”.
I love this framework.
It is super helpful in times where I struggle to make the right decision on what to do. I realized that I was looking at many problems in my life completely wrong. And you are too.(Probably)
Sometimes, the easiest way to make these decisions is not to figure out what to do. It’s actually to figure out what to avoid doing. When you do that, you (more often than not) end up doing the right thing.
I hope I’m making sense.
To tie this back to your career. Sometimes it’s really hard to figure out what you actually want to do with your life. And a sad reality that I’ve come to realize…
A lot of people never figure it out.
Many people actually spend their whole lives without making that life-changing discovery.
Luckily, I did.
I spent time thinking about a lot of the biggest problems I see in the world.
And soon enough… I realized that this problem made the top of the list. I realized what I want to do is help people with this problem. And guide them (as best as I can) to make this discovery for themselves. In a way that is straight forward, fast, and cost-effective.
And from there, my idea for Vitalign was born.
What is Vitalign?
It is a guided self-discovery platform that helps you figure out what kind of work actually fits you — not just what you’re capable of doing, but what’s going to give you energy and keep you engaged. It’s built on real psychology and personality science, with some AI to connect the dots.
It’s simple. You take the test, answer about 25 questions — and then you get this personalized breakdown of your natural strengths, weaknesses, what motivates you, and the types of careers that actually make sense for someone wired like you are.
And here’s the best part.
It can show you options you probably didn’t even know existed. Career paths you didn’t even know were on the table.
I built it myself, and am improving it everyday. I think it can really help you.
The test is free to take. If you want the full results, the cost is $50.
You can take it as many times as you like. And if you used it, and you didn’t get any true sense of value from it, you can send me an email, and I will personally refund your money.
You can take the test here:
All you have to do is go on the website, click “Start Assessment”, answer the questions, and get your free results.
If you like what you see there, you can buy the full results, and have access to it right on the page. You can also have it sent to your email.
